Sex Counseling

Address sexual concerns, improve intimacy, and resolve issues related to sexual health and relationships. Explore your sexuality, find emotional balance, and welcome pleasure into your life.

An integrative approach to sexual and relational well-being.

  • Sexuality & Relationships

    Become intentional about the relationships with yourself and others. Explore your sexual identity, desires, and difficulties. Navigate sexual concerns, improve intimacy, and explore relationship dynamics. Address communication challenges, deepen connections, and create a more satisfying, fulfilling partnership.

  • Emotional Regulation & Behavioral Change

    Gain better understanding of your emotions. Find clarity and balance. Identify and alter patterns that no longer serve you with proven strategies for lasting change. Explore the connection between your mind, body, and relationships to create a more fulfilling life.

Sex Counseling & Relationship Support

I specialize in helping individuals and couples explore their relationship dynamics, improve sexual satisfaction, and manage emotional challenges. My approach is client-centered, focusing on understanding your unique needs and providing personalized suggestions to support your journey toward a more fulfilling life.

  • Are you struggling with sexual difficulties like low desire, erectile issues, or trouble reaching orgasm? Do you experience pain during intimate moments or feel overwhelmed by out-of-control sexual behaviors ("porn addiction")? I offer individual counseling that integrates mind-body practices, including breathing techniques and mindfulness, to help you manage stress, chronic pain, and emotional challenges. My goal is to support you in achieving a balanced and satisfying sexual life.

  • Strong relationships require effective communication, conflict management, and mutual trust. Whether you’re navigating the early stages of a relationship or have been together for decades, I provide couples with tools to explore their unique dynamics, clarify non-negotiables, and explore shared sexual pleasure. My work emphasizes enhancing intimacy and building deeper, more meaningful connections.

  • For those exploring their sexual identity, I provide a safe, non-judgmental space to uncover and embrace your desires, including kinks, BDSM, and consensual non-monogamy. Whether you're confronting sources of shame or simply seeking to understand your preferences better, I offer supportive guidance tailored to your needs, helping you gain confidence and insight into your erotic self.

  • As a sex-positive, kink-aware, and LGBTQ+ inclusive counselor, I believe that sexual health is a crucial aspect of overall well-being. My practice is dedicated to creating a supportive environment where you can explore every facet of your life, history, and identity with compassion and understanding. Fluent in both English and Spanish, I welcome clients from all backgrounds, committed to helping you create a more authentic and fulfilling life.

“Explore effective tools to cope with stress, deepen your relationships, and experience more pleasure.”

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 FAQs

  • My rate is $175/per session and I offer a sliding scale (discount) based on financial need. The sliding scale varies from $175-$90/per session.

  • A typical session, whether for individuals or couples, is about 50 minutes long. I also offer extended sessions and group workshops which may vary according to what you’re looking for.

  • No, I do not take insurance and my services are not eligible for out-of-network reimbursement.

  • I offer both virtual (ET/EST time zone) and in-person sessions in Florida. You can find me in Saint Petersburg at Cypress Wellness Center and in Tampa at FMP Mental Health Spa. Please know all appointments will be scheduled based on Eastern Time zone and the appointment reminders will reflect that.

  • One of the most difficult part is finding someone who you’re confident in their ability to support you in whatever you’re going through. The answer to this question is very nuanced and the best way to find out may be to have an initial session. You may also take a look at the Resources page, there you might find out more about me, my approach, and where I’ve learned from.

  • The most likely answer is: Yes! This is a time and space for you (and/or your relationship). I start most first-time sessions with: Where would you like to start today? You pick the pace, the goals, the topics…

  • The frequency is up to you! You might want to consider practical things (such as budget, schedule, motivations. and goals) and your own personality (how detailed are you when telling a story, how often you want to have potentially ‘hard’ conversations, etcetera).

  • Therapist have specific requirements and guidelines based on the states where they practice. Under the oversight of federal and state ethical and legal boards, they provide mental health assessments and treatment for a range of psychiatric conditions, encompassing depression, anxiety, obsessive-compulsive disorder, as well as trauma and Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD).

    I practice ethically within my field, yet there is no legal oversight. There is no stand-alone licensure for Clinical Sexology. Choosing between a general mental health counselor, a sex therapist, or to work with me, really depends on your reasons to seek service.

    I do not offer a mental health diagnosis. Nonetheless, I am trained in the mental health field and follow a trauma-informed approach. In everything I do, there is a scientific understanding of human psychology, health, and well-being. You can see my credentials here.

    However, this service is not a replacement for therapy, psychiatric medication, or medical care. Please consult with your primary care provider, mental heath therapist, or another healthcare professional. You may also email me a short description of what you’re looking for and I can offer referrals if it is not something I work with.

    You can find out more about Sex Counseling, Sex Therapy, and Sex Coaching here.

  • This service would not be a good fit if:

    • There is active substance dependence. If you find yourself regularly relying on substances to function or cope, it may be beneficial to consider a higher level of care, such as an inpatient or intensive outpatient program. Professionals can provide more structured support to address the dependence.

    • You’re experiencing Intimate Partner Violence (aka Domestic Violence). If you are in immediate danger or experiencing ongoing violence, seeking immediate assistance from local authorities or a shelter is crucial. A higher level of care, such as seeking refuge in a shelter or counseling from specialists, may be necessary for your safety and well-being.

    • You have current suicidal ideation. Current or frequent thoughts of self-harm or suicide should be taken seriously. Seeking immediate help from a mental health professional, a hospital, or a helpline is crucial. A higher level of care might involve inpatient psychiatric treatment to ensure your safety and provide intensive support.

    • There are severe mental health symptoms. If you’re experiencing severe symptoms of depression, anxiety, psychosis, body dysmorphia, or other mental health conditions that significantly interfere with your ability to function (e.g., severe hallucinations, inability to maintain personal hygiene, disorientation), a higher level of care like inpatient psychiatric treatment might be necessary for stabilization and intensive support.

    • You’re currently struggling with an Eating Disorder. If you have an eating disorder (anorexia, bulimia, binge-eating disorder) that is severely impacting your health, necessitating medical monitoring, nutritional support, or psychological intervention, a higher level of care through an eating disorder treatment center or specialized program might be necessary.

    • There are unmanaged chronic health conditions. If you have chronic health conditions (e.g., diabetes, heart conditions, chronic pain) that are significantly impacting your mental health or vice versa, seeking a higher level of integrated care that addresses both physical and mental health needs might be beneficial.

    • There’s an active or recent acute psychiatric crisis. In situations of acute crisis where an individual is a danger to themselves or others, immediate intervention through emergency services or psychiatric emergency facilities might be necessary. This includes severe episodes of psychosis, uncontrollable agitation, or other behaviors that pose an immediate risk.

Remember, these are general guidelines, and seeking advice from a healthcare professional who can assess your specific situation is essential. Each individual's circumstances are unique, and the need for a higher level of care can vary widely based on personal factors. You can refer to our consent agreement for more information. 
You may also schedule one session without any long-term commitment. If you’re actively attending therapy or under primary medical care, you might consult with them if they believe this could be of benefit to you. 

Offered Through Cypress Wellness Center

“An inclusive wellness center committed to providing high-quality mental health therapeutic services and making them accessible to all.”